When I was seventeen I overdosed on cocaine. I weighed pounds and was 5'9" - needless to say, I was skinny. I have been asked to be a fitness model and to competitively powerlift. My journey from being a skinny kid to a muscular bro was motivated almost entirely by my goal of bedding more women. And although putting on a lot of muscle didn't give me the results I had fantasized about, the journey helped transform my character and turned me into a guy who does in fact bed a lot of women. I'm writing this post because there are a lot of misconceptions about how being muscular helps you with women , so here is the truth about how being muscular will help you get laid.
How I Put on Muscle
Is it true that girls are into muscular men with bulging veins and ripped body, or do they prefer a skinny boy with a pretty face? I remember when I was an obese little kid, and I thought women would fawn all over me once I develop a nice body. Evolutionary psychologists have done more than a handful of studies regarding what type of body women prefer in men. A V-shaped torso in a man signifies that he has a well-developed upper body musculature along with a lower body fat percentage. It also tells a girl that the man likely has a higher level of testosterone which most girls subconsciously find attractive. So, why have women developed a preference for a physically strong male with a high level of testosterone? A muscular man with a V-shaped torso was able to successfully defend his woman and himself against these threats.
I wrote about this topic over on Quora. Of course, when you get a lot of attention online, you get a lot of dumb people saying dumb shit. So, I took what they said, reevaluated my original post, and arrived at the following conclusion:. I want you to pay extra attention to the end of the previous sentence. Learn More: Why is Muscularity Sexy? Tests of The Fitness Indicator Hypothesis. This same study also found that the guys who were more muscular had more sexual partners. The women reported having had flings more often with muscular guys. The reason a lot of bodybuilders started training in the first place was because they were lacking in some social area of their life, and thought the gym would fix the problem I'm no exception to this. To gain the attraction of a woman, and you do have to GAIN the attraction of a woman, you have to stir up some kind of emotion within her.
If your heart longs for children, a family and love- why should you stop yourself holding out for some mystical Mormon man to swoop you off your feet. Like it was mentioned above, see how she deals some of the issues now and if she can't handle it, it might be better to find someone else. But he does want to get married to and to have kids. Just going to jump in and then jump out I remember how idealistic I was back then, but here's reality: You will be without him most of the time.