But, you will probably lose. There is no question that God loves all of His children, and that obviously includes non-members. Marriage is unbelievably amazing and indescribably painful; I have been at it for 28 years with my soul mate. If you are in a movie theater, you can't talk, so you can't get to know the girl you are dating. It sounds like she's already considered marrying you and raising children in the church even with you being out of the church. Thank you for your blog. It's a tricky business, but oh so worth it for the one you love. This is a reply to all. Thank you so much for your honesty!. I have finally realized that the church is fake and I'm so grateful that I got a second chance with this guy.
Doesn't leave many options here though but better than constantly having them push the church on you until you either give in and convert or break up. I overheard her once saying, "being married to a doctor isn't what you think it is" and this is what I think she was referring to. I know a guy who had a hobby of corrupting Mormon girls he was abused by his TBM parentsand I'm told you're both right. Due to their religious teachings, Mormons do not smoke, drink alcohol or caffeinated "hot drinks" coffee or tea or do drugs. Before I proposed, I actually broke up with my partner for a month в mostly due to family pressure. As for conversion, she just spent every waking second thinking about converting people. For every lesson and sermon preached about loving everyone, there are one or two lessons on avoiding outsiders because they will destroy your eternity. But wait a minute. I have already been told I will "lose" to medicine if I put pressure on him.
I'm sorry you may be hearing a lot of negativity from us. But if your faith is a key part of your life, this is huge. The views expressed by individual users are the responsibility of those users and do not necessarily represent the position of the Church. Welcome to Reddit, the front page of the internet. I'll tell her that we are strictly friends for now on.
It is an act of faith. They know that they are the best. I just started dating this guy and not only is he in the army, but also a doctor. She might be everything you want, but in her eyes you are not what she has been dreaming of her whole life. Again, reiterating it, don't expect a decade's worth of time with her, but enjoy her good while you two are together.