And depending on his views of the Sabbath, you will probably get the tug of war on Sundays. If I were you, I would sever the relationship and find someone else. Be direct and get your needs met. Thank you so much for your honesty!. There are billions of other girls out there who I wouldn't have issues like this with. Even though it sounds like she is very Mormon, I feel that this will help her. What can you expect.
I would suggest having a list of chores that need to be done, and anyone can check them off. You can ask her directly, or through sources like other Mormons or reading their books. Too bad she couldn't handle the guilt and remorse.
As my husband learns about Mormonism I get to see it through his fresh eyes. Then she can have a chance to actually be the individual she is, and they can have an adult conversation about their future and whether or not they have one. An interfaith marriage can be done well or disastrously, or even only being made up as you go. This woman has already given two full years fully devoted to the institution without question. It is difficult to learn to have no expectations towards him, even though our mindset towards medicine is the same. We attempted to date back when I was in undergrad and he was in med school, and it went nowhere -- mostly because I was young, immature, self-centered and your typical spazzy college kid at that point. Yet people look at me like I'm crazy. She will introduce you to the church. And, for anyone "dating" a married doctor.
I'll keep digging through it, but there's a lot there and I'd like some suggestions to narrow my search. Dating a doctor is a huge motivator for me. It was more about my own spirituality and our relationship in our marriage. I can't emphasize this strongly enough. She can only get sealed to him in a Mormon temple. Catholics basically married catholics and protestants basically married protestants.