Maybe more convinced than you are. With so much pervasive degeneracy in the media, Mormon parents think they are safe showing their kids Disney movies. And frankly, you feel like such a loser. Again, reiterating it, don't expect a decade's worth of time with her, but enjoy her good while you two are together.
Oh, yeah, and this girl belongs to a verifiable cult. The LDS Church encourages that young women explore their options and meet all different kinds of people. But I could make it very romantic indeed. It's like talking to a wall. Ultimately there are no guarantees but I'd say it's worth a shot. How will this all be once we have children?. You will have to bring her down to reality. That's all we're really saying. Drinkers tend to rely on drink before they can have fun. You've made good points about not bringing up the CES letter or anything that could be called "anti-mormon.
The church is really good at putting on a happy, wholesome face to show the world, but if you look behind the curtain, you see that it's a despicable cult. As a parent, we hope our children will make life choices that will give them the greatest chance of happiness. There have been times in my marriage where I have been frustrated and angry by his lack of change. And don't get hung up on all the "lofty doc" stuff. In the end, if the guy is the keeper you say he is then go with your gut. Reason being - he wants our relationship to be spontaneous like it was before the pre-med things really "kicked in". Mormonism has a lay clergy, so everyone serves in the Church.
I've never understood that bit of the LDS culture. But on the main page of exmormon Reddit on the side bar there is a link to a site with links to all the pages on LDS. Getting Over a Breakup. When he doesn't have his patience he has his family who seem more and more to have self inflicted issues they gamble, drink and smoke which lead to health issues and bills. Build a life of your own but, make them your priority. Would I like to have him by my side. And what is even worse, is to think of him alone in our house Christmas Day while I work a 24 hr in-house call shift.