It would put him in a position of feeling less and being looked down on. When I taught GD we discussd the lessons. If your spouse thinks 8 is too young to get baptized, are you all right with waiting until they are older. You can ask her directly, or through sources like other Mormons or reading their books. That's all we're really saying.
If she can accept me for who I am and what I believe, knowing that I'll never give her the eternal family she wants, then maybe we'll be ok. My life may not be as stressful as that of a medical resident or a doctor, but I do often spend upward of 70 - 80 hours per week working. I am active in church, I take my kids regularly, and I have callings. Though I am yet to see if we would make it. Maybe it won't be a big deal. Although it may indeed be a good idea to get out of this one, we all need to keep in mind that the situation is more complex than that.
How convenient for him. Log in or sign up in seconds. There is no way she will may you without you going to the temple. That is the shit storm on the road ahead of you.