How church discipline works. She asked me to read that site and write down questions. You are not a worthy RM priesthood holder. He is not willing to cut back on hours or ever get off of his career track. I wouldn't just start bringing up the ces letter and the problems in it. Only the racist comments about why it was enacted have been disavowed. I am an extrovert too, I do feel lonely when my husband is not around on weekends or holidays or when I fall sick.
He is a great doctor and everyone loves him great that makes it easy there are always going to be flirty women if you are not a strong women then run. Take your date to a club with loud music and an open bar, or an R-rated or violent movie, and the prospects of it going well are daunting. That will most likely be the deal breaker for her.
I'm sorry you may be hearing a lot of negativity from us. When those are not around or when the circumstances or the spirit indicate otherwise then prayer is more than enough. The goal of dating at that age is to broaden your social circle and learn more about yourself. I grew up in Utah, attended BYU, and served a mission. Let me say this so you can get an idea of just how crazy and how much your girl friend is into the Mormon religion: These are known as "garments". However, we rarely ever see each other and don't talk that much in between. My experience with non members has been so much more meaningful and caring.
In the end people have to make their own decisions. I have been married to a doctor for 29 years now and think I have felt or experienced many of the worries expressed. Thirty years ago I converted a guy and then dumped him for a returned missionary from an established LDS family. But I love him so much.