You would be her back up plan in case she can't find a guy who is a returned missionary, preferably from a prominent LDS family. His single doctor friends have so much more time and money to spend on lavish overseas holidays and recreational activities, while every spare moment the husband has to spend at home, helping with the children and all the responsibilities that entails. He puts no effort forth toward our marriage - he has no time or energy to do so. That of course does not mean all eternal marriages should have been entered into or will succeed. After a lot of thought during that relationship with a non-Mormon, I laid out exactly what struggles I was probably going to face: I was worried about my own faith. However, from what I have seen he has all of the qualities I want from someone long-term. He is a great doctor and everyone loves him great that makes it easy there are always going to be flirty women if you are not a strong women then run. If kids ever came into the picture though, I wouldn't want to be isolated from them psychologically or banned from walking my daughter down the aisle someday.
Before I met my husband I had dated quite a few members and some relationships were quite serious but I never felt right about it. God works by small and simple means to bring about His great and eternal purposes. He's a big boy and can make up his own mind. IE в the comment about not having a husband to give priesthood blessings, etc. If you do manage to break her away from the church, her family will be there to continue sowing doubt. We always went every Sunday, had family prayer and scripture reading, etc. My 16 year old daughter told her Bishop who made that comment, that she thought her dad was great just the way he was. Dont aggressively try to destroy her faith but bring up philosophical thinking points.
That said, I like to hope that love can be more powerful than belief. All that matters to her is things are how they are because god wants them that way. Work out as many as you can before marriage happens. I know the majority of them are great, but there are so many who are like vultures and will latch on to any male doctor like he is theirs. I'll tell her that we are strictly friends for now on. If she expresses interest in converting, be prepared to talk about your beliefs, and help her find ways to learn about and follow them. I'm so sick of waiting around every night and weekend to see if he will have a minute for me.
You could even pass it off as you investigating the church and you stumnled accross these essays on lds. He has spent years building his practice and is a busy, highly successful pediatric surgeon who is compassionate and respected by everybody, but I think by nature, it is hard for him to be empathetic or to relate to more personal issues. I am running errands related to school or the volunteer work I do or just plain running this house I would love to meet up at the gym ladies. You join the LDS Church.