Thank you, Liz, for your very kind words and encouragement. Narcissism, androgyny, obsession with pop cultureвthe problems with Western women go on and on. I can only say that I was that girl, 10 years ago. At 30, you just give up. He is studying to get into a residency program and I struggle to get his time. It gets better towards the later part of the whole deal, but it's always going to be kind of crazy busy. How do you really feel about that. I dated many LDS guys before him.
I hear you, I need my down time to decompress and watch stuff on the Internet, haha. I feel I have given a lot of myself and in the process have lost myself and my identity. NeverMo in CA Date: NeverMo in CA Wrote: I've read many of the stories here and I know the religion is toxic.
I was with him before I even started college and the past year was especially tough as I am getting more and more busy. Not sure I want to marry one and live a lonely life, I just want a life partner that can be there for me and any future children. Not the end of the world. We should all remember this is a human being, and she has a brain. The important thing is doing it together. I spent a lot of time on my knees and made several trips to the temple before I felt l could trust that what I knew I wanted to be promptings actually were. Because I make myself busy, and I think he would to, with other projects and activities. We are doing long distance at the moment and I was wondering if you have any advice. One small thing to add here.
He expects perfect children who ,"will all become doctors. We all wondered why should would go against such a blessing. He sealed my husband and I on our wedding day. My father told him it's never too late to leave whether we are married with kids or just engaged. Even if the church believes a bunch of crazy nonsense, and she believes it too, I still really like her and would like to see whether we can have some good intellectual conversations about this stuff.