They get hazed, they get questioned all the time, they don't get sleep, they have people's lives in their hands and have to struggle to be confident in what they know, but not too egotistical to kill someone Give him the benefit of the doubt and some space. Is it naive to think we could raise our children to fully participate in two different faiths. He's currently working in the ER and waiting to start his residency. Honestly i love my baby future doctor honestly i would never leave her, but im scared of not knowing how to deal with all situations and emotions by myself, and this have already began, that means evrytime is going to be worse and ill got to be more strong. Also, as Joanna points out, men and women already inhabit a separate culture. Honestly, you are probably the only person who she has ever known to outwardly label themselves an atheist. Mormon girls are the best, and you are pretty lucky. Even after that, the Church discourages youth from entering serious relationships before they are considering marriage. And here's an excellent video on the importance of religious freedom.
Even though it sounds like she is very Mormon, I feel that this will help her. We long to have a connection that you don't have time for. An important is doing this together. This is especially true when you are around others. There will be struggles in marriage and childrearing whether or not he is a member. I can second this, as a lifelong utahn this is why I simply have a "no mormons" policy for dating. They are at the service of others at the expense of their family. My wife chose me, but most people aren't so lucky. I had been teetering on the fringes for quite a long time, mostly coming to Church but not really being present, because I felt like an outcast as an older single.
Then we can at least cuddle and go to bed together. We should all remember this is a human being, and she has a brain. They don't have any time. He wants things to be low key for now. The church didn't do it to her but it helped create the environment that allowed it to happen. You've made good points about not bringing up the CES letter or anything that could be called "anti-mormon. Not the end of the world. Though I am yet to see if we would make it. Would she be okay with never being married in the temple. Fall in love, learn, make some mistakes, laugh, serve other people, reproduce, and let the whole story start again.
Deep down I know he could pass on that stuff, but never the less it seems like a necessary inconvenience to attend these events. Mormons are very strict about avoiding sex outside of marriage. I am professor, and he is a surgeon in his first year as an attending. If she can't put you before her religion then you need to walk away.