You will raise the kids by yourself, and he won't help even when he's home because he'll be too tired or feel too entitled to HIS time alone. Anyway, before you marry you should work out anything hypothetical that might come up in the future. They value femininity, motherhood, and masculinity in men. If you do manage to break her away from the church, her family will be there to continue sowing doubt. I think it was Spencer Kimball who counselled that before marriage you should keep your eyes wide open and then after marriage keep your eyes half shut. It made me sad to think that the thing that was most important my life в my faith в was something that I could never fully share with my husband. Anecdotes vs a much larger sample size. It is very difficult being a Doctors wife. I have been happily married to a non-mormon for 20 years.
Will he be happy knowing that you are giving up something of incredible importance to you. I'll give him a chance to fix it by talking to him about it, but the more that I think about how he has treated me the more I just feel ready to check out of the whole situation. Immediateley after we got married I realised things were not going to be as I thought.
He can relate to me and we can relate to each other which makes us strong to begin with. We had lots of sex and fun. Is it wrong not to. Please wait a few minutes and refresh this page. The brethren have taught that there is an ideal pattern for marriage.
Well, maybe not a total disaster, that is a bit exaggerated. I am so happy about 'starting' our life together in a few months, but I feel like I am totally setting myself up for disappointment. That I will be expected to be a full time single parent most of the time. Great post and so very true. No one could compare to the man I married. I knew that when I met him.
