And the thought of being a 'single mom' if we have kids. I feel for you. I was born and raised in the LDS faith. She drove an old Dodge Neon during her cash-strapped residency and fellowship. Mormons are one of the few remaining groups with healthy women. If I were you, I would sever the relationship and find someone else.
I wanted that full support though I am certainly not saying that marrying a Mormon ensures that. The importance of tithing your money. His superiors will determine when he takes time off. See her good qualities for what they are and see it as a good relationship to remember. Oh your fiance works in the medicine field, too. Earlier I mentioned "Even if the church believes a bunch of crazy nonsense, and she believes it too, I still really like her and would like to see whether we can have some good intellectual conversations about this stuff.
Don't let her try to bring in the missionaries to explain; remind her that she is an RM and knows all they do and probably much more. When you work this hard, you need to play hard. When the weather is nice outside, I crave for a walk with my husband, but have to tell myself he is busy saving lives. I currently just started dating someone who is not only in the military, but a doctor. My new book is called, "Looking For: If he doesn't have time to pursue a relationship, and a medical resident usually doesn't, he shouldn't have done that. If I catch you in the back seat trying to pick her locks, I'm going to send you back to mother in a card board box. Even Mormon girls who marry non-Mormons want great dads for their kids, and they are oriented to having kids, sometimes many kids. If your spouse thinks 8 is too young to get baptized, are you all right with waiting until they are older. Love the man you are going to marry- warts and all he loves yours as well.
God brought the two of us together, and we are truly in love. She probably doesn't even realize how crazy that is. Why Mormons are not racist. Recently though she has been quite distant, although this may be due to a combination of reasons - such as family sickness and now being on nights. It's not that she doesn't believe you right now, but it is a bone she will never drop. Like you I grew up with and taught the standard LDS beliefs about temple marriage, celestial kingdom, etc. Also, what do you and your fiancee do to deal with the busyness. And yes, some people are unbelievably stupid about it. Maybe watch "Going Clear" with her. It sucks to admit, but I broke up with him after 6 months because I didn't think there was any point if we couldn't be together forever.
