Warnings While the LDS Church accepts that those who feel attraction to members of their own sex can be Mormons, it discourages acting on those feelings. Married men should not reach out to vulnerable women who buy their story of being lonely bc they are married to a woman who should have been a librarian. I'll keep digging through it, but there's a lot there and I'd like some suggestions to narrow my search. I'd try to see if she will leave the religion, and if not, you should break it off.
I would need to ask my husband again. I am trying to help him stay at the church nth work, I think if I really love him like I always tell him I should let him chose and love him the way he is. Like many single members of the church, I have often wondered whether I would be willing to marry someone outside of the temple, and over the past few years I have come to believe that I would be willing to do so. We would have a movie night at his apartment on a Saturday night and the next few days would be great. This post and the comments are an eye opener. Wow, so nice to know others feel just like me. He learned that I didn't pick up on ambiguity and that I took it personally when he didn't show consideration for me during the times that it was possible to.
You don't want a divorce because it will hurt the kids - they love him and think he's the greatest. It will definitely take patience to work through any of this with her but it sounds like she's a pretty awesome person. If you have tended to straddle the line between light and dark in the past, or have been a partier, expect to make some changes for this relationship, and expect certain things from your new crush. Now look at the flip side в if he loves you, and realizes you fully believe, how will he deal with the importance of the temple to you.
You'll have to get use to the running late, the tire man, weeks without communication, dinner alone, and unanswered texts and phone calls. They are just really convinced they are right. Don't fall in love with a doctor. All those are reasons to give the church some elbow room but they are not reasons for actually staying. She can never hang out on Sundays because she apparently spends the entire day at church.