She doesn't want to marry you. I can see how it would be easy to think wow, I'm not even worth 3 minutes of conversation and I don't want you to feel that way. You would be able to force her to confront the facts without feeling threatened. The right age for getting married varies depends for men and women. Will he possible convert just to make you happy without really buying into it.
That deal with polygamy explained. Yes, those of us in the hospital work longer and harder days than most people with 9 to 5s, but we still have off days. I am a 47 yr old Mom of a 4 yr old child with special needs who is completely alone to care for my child a good part of the time. Having said that I'm not looking to get married any time soon, so no. Several of the apostles have grown up in part member homes.
I hate that it's all on his terms. I am so beyond afraid of what lies ahead in terms of residency; the loneliness, missing out on years of family experiences together, raising two kids by myself we have a 1. You would be her back up plan in case she can't find a guy who is a returned missionary, preferably from a prominent LDS family. Easily found in most hospital lobbies.
That's the difference - marrying for love vs marrying for a paycheck. And I never found that "good Mormon girl". Being married to a doctor is a difficult thing to balance. I was an ordinary doctor until I found Medscape. This is right for me and for us. Maybe watch "Going Clear" with her. I have a friend who identifies as bi-gendered and often feels most comfortable in femme. So how do we approach saving a relationship with someone who has unrealistic expectations of what a long-term relationship looks like.
